Are YOU a Needy Sub?
The issue of a submissive being too needy comes up way more than you’d think. No matter what type of domination is being done; pro, online, lifestyle or a combination thereof, an overly clingy sub will...
View ArticleBody Worship is Not a Right
A classic ‘tell’ of the sub of convenience (when a male is submissive only when it suits him) is when they contact you and ‘assume’ that YOUR body is THEIR playground. When I first speak to a sub I ask...
View ArticleSo Your Wife Doesn’t Want to Have Sex Anymore
Many of the men I talk to tell me that they are no longer having sex with their wives. In some cases women have shut down for over a decade or more. That makes me sad. Here they are in this perfectly...
View ArticleThe Forgotten Women of BDSM
Most of the femme domme world is occupied by submissive males. And in the world of masters the ratio tends to be a fifty-fifty split between female and male. So where does that leave the submissive...
View ArticleCan I Be Replaced by a Dildo
A married husband of 12 years emailed me recently with an issue he found himself facing. In order to spice up their bedroom play they started to play with toys. They began with the basics, light...
View ArticleWhy Do I Fantasize About Sucking My Best Friend’s Cock
D wrote to me about his feelings, fantasies and confusion surrounding sucking his best friend’s cock. And surprisingly I get A LOT of emails asking about this which is why I chose to address it here...
View ArticleCommunication Breakdown
After being involved in many different aspects of the sex industry over the years, from my former pro-domme work, to owning a sex shop (without viewing booths, ewww) and then, the since the dawn of the...
View ArticleThe 3 S’s of Submission
Being sexually submissive can often be a confusing road to travel. For many of you, men and women alike, submission can even become disappointing when you’re trying to navigate the world of domination...
View ArticleWhat is Your Submissive Intent?
I was having a talk with SubG not that long ago and we started discussing submissive intentions when it comes to serving. It came up again when I was talking with my friend A, who is a female sub who I...
View ArticleOWN ME Mistress
by guest blogger: Mistress Kiara How many times have We as Dommes been approached with this very phrase? No introduction, not even a discussion of fetish likes & hard limits. Just, “Hey, stranger,...
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